i'm for usa mainly.

i root for china in a few things.

"and focus on other things
without distractions, like being in a relationship."

no way issit selfish of you to be hurting.
don't blame yourself!

loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out

"Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love

but to only discover that for them

we are just passin time, while the one who truly

loves us remains either a friend or a stranger..."

So here's a piece of advice;

Let go when you're hurting too much.

Give up when love isn't enough.

And move on when things are not like before...

It's certain... there is someone out there...

Who Will Love You Even More.

i didn't actually make the words up there ... but in my opinion if he thinks of you as a distraction... then what will he think again in the future?

i bet when he gets older he'll be so much busier than now

i know we don't know each other really well, but I just don't think you should feel selfish ... :X

 but the choice is all yours to make.